Get Comfortable with Conflict
" Being responsible sometimes means pissing people off." - Colin Powell. The primary responsibility of good leadership is the welfare of the entire organization or group, which means that some people WILL be angry at your decisions and actions. This is unavoidable if you lead with integrity and honor. If a leader's primary goal is to get everyone to "like" them or to be "happy" all the time, they are building a system where we take those that are in our charge and "love" them into mediocrity. This happens because the leader will avoid tough decisions, avoid confronting people who need to be confronted, and they will avoid rewarding high-performers because some people will be upset that they did not receive the same reward. The leader will be met with cries of "that's not fair!", or "How dare they treat me this way after all the years I have given to this place?" and the like. However, by holding ba...